Frigidity, the symptoms and the causes of disease

Good day, dear visitors of the blog! A full and happy relationship is impossible without sex life. Satisfy women in bed affects its mental state and behavior.

But why in the most harmonious, at first glance, the relationship, sometimes missing libido? In fact, the reasons for this phenomenon is more than enough. Here plays a big role as a physiological factor, and psychological.

Lack of libido in women not reason to blame the spouse. Today I will help you to understand why this happens.

not arousal in women

During the orgasm, from a physiological point of view, is the reduction of the uterus and the vagina, which ends with satisfaction. Partners can occur in the course of one sexual act, one or more orgasms.

If a woman is cold in bed, not experiencing any sensations, then it is called frigid. Some frigid women, there is complete aversion to the sexual process.

Libido-called sexual desire. Its heyday was in the late Teens or early twenties, sometimes earlier.

Sexual life of the partners originated from the desire which is formed in the brain. Strong sex occurs through visual images, a large part of the population, which is associated with romanticism and action. After you receive the desire for excitement, and then begins the stages of the procedure and ends with the orgasm. The more serious the problem, the harder the therapy.

Why not wish for the women?

I already spoke of the reasons for the lack of attraction to fall into two categories. Let's look at the physiological side:

  1. The failure of the hormonal system. Is responsible for libido hormone, called testosterone. Today there is a tendency to decrease. Women decreased libido may be due to the influence of the hormone prolactin. Breastfeeding in women is the loss of attractiveness.
  2. Age processes. Loss or impairment of libido occurs in women during menopause. In the meantime, the efficiency of the ovaries begins to fall, causing the estrogens are produced in small quantities. The process becomes painful in the absence of lubrication. Stop sexual relationship, continue to live a normal life and be happy.
  3. Pathological condition. This includes diseases, such as diabetes, diseases of the musculoskeletal system and connective tissue, and many others.
  4. A way of life. Nicotine, alcohol, drugs inhibits the attraction. Affect the nerves in the brain, which are responsible for libido. The importance of the satisfaction of these habits.
  5. Muscle contraction of the vagina, which can be painful for both partners. It is often the cause for this condition is postponed sexual violence.
  6. Of sexual disease. Often create discomfort in the area of external sexual organs and vagina.

The psychological aspect of the

Women often do not have a desire in relation with the previous heavy moved situations, such as unsuccessful first sexual relations, violence, the birth of a child.

A lot of women, which have led to very strict, ashamed to open their feelings and emotions to a partner. They are afraid to seem slutty to him, etc, Often there are cases when after marriage the women, just sex in the dark or in the clothing. Lost desire, the hidden resentment toward our former partner.

the excitation

At the beginning of Dating, and at first relations between people exist the interest and strong attraction. This contributes to the chemical processes in the brain, which causes a greater passion and increasing desire. All of this leads to the natural sexual process without the need of further activation of the desire.

The problems of identity, which arise due to the imposed opinion of society, of parents and of other people, and also as a result of psychological trauma at the time, may overlap a strong attraction to a particular partner. But over time, that spark is lost, and the problems are back.

The continuing disputes and disagreements between the spouses, which occur throughout the life total, play an important role in loss of sexual desire. Some people are a long time to hold a grudge, because this completely turns off sexual attraction.

For a large part of the population, it is important to receive compliments, flowers and gifts even after the wedding and many years together. Women have a great need to develop the emotional part of the relationship before sexual contact. In men, this there is a need for sex.

Love and sex should be in harmony. If a pair is dominated by a more Solid and spiritual connection, then libido goes by the wayside and vice versa.

In the past years among the people there is trust, understanding, but has the intimate life. In their relationships, people will be deprived, can be a desire for intimacy with someone, while remaining faithful to the partner.

The important role of physical attractiveness. After marriage women and men should not cease to care for themselves. They must comply with hygiene rules, watch my weight, hairstyle, makeup, clothing style, skin condition, etc ..

In a relationship, where you do not know what inspired the look, facial expressions, movements, smell partner is not satisfaction. Distinguish specific parts of the DNA that create attraction between the partners. So, we are most drawn sexually to those individuals that have irregular and unusual for the us style of clothing and behavior, which I really like. But the interests and views of life among such people will not be the same.

A solution to the problem

A woman may still not understand the lack of desire. Women don't ask a lot of questions about how not to bring the marriage to divorce. For someone that is the best solution will be to visit a psychologist or sexologist.

The Specialist will research, talk to you, it will address the problem from all angles, to determine the cause for loss of libido and find an efficient way of solving this problem. This may be standard advice, a variety of technical therapeutic manipulation, dance and movement measures and so on. The professional determines what the client needs for the job.

Treatment of reduced libido is some of the problems. If managed properly, to determine the cause, then you need to treat the main disease.

In any case, it is useful to live a healthy life, stop drinking alcohol, get enough sleep and stay in a peaceful state of mind. All of these activities are aimed at improvement of the hormonal levels in a natural way. I have achieved excellent results in this, that I know whereof I speak.

This is useful if you want to perform a set of exercises to strengthen the PC muscles and pelvic floor muscles. Promotes arousal by increasing the blood circulation. Also Kegel exercises you can do every day for this purpose.

And finally revealed to give you another way to gain the sexual interest of a partner in a natural way. You just need to do yoga.


As you know, all the exercises of yoga accompanied by deep, conscious breathing. Before bed exercises, train yourself to breathe correctly, and at the same belly breathing during intimacy, you'll be amazed how it works!

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